In our work as dating experts, we’ve seen how the ups and downs of dating can bring out some of our deepest insecurities and a serious case of Dating Fatigue. One day, you feel hopeful and excited, and the next, you're questioning everything—wondering if you said the wrong thing, if you’ll ever m...

The political landscape today, particularly with Trump’s return to the spotlight, is designed to invoke fear. His strategy thrives on chaos, division, and dysregulation of social, political, and individual systems—a well-documented tactic of authoritarian leaders. For individuals, this means our ...

How to Date Authentically Using Intuitive Dating Principles Dating today can feel like a whirlwind—apps, texting etiquette, ghosting, and mixed signals can make it difficult to stay grounded and true to yourself. That’s why authenticity is one of the most important tools you can cultivate in you...

No matter how healed you are, family time can kick up old reactivity patterns like horses kicking up dust on a dry, hot day. Even when you've done the inner work, there’s something about returning to the environment where those patterns were first formed that can stir up emotions you thought you’...

With the explosion of pop psychology on social media platforms, you’ve likely come across attachment styles and might already have some sense of how your attachment style shapes your dating and relationship patterns—whether it’s the type of partners you attract or how you respond to them. But if ...

Over time, studies have shown that people who are more optimistic, sometimes overly optimistic to the point of delusion, tend to have better luck, better productivity, better ability to achieve goals and navigate challenges, and better overall outcomes in work and life. So, why would this be diff...

Are you in a situationship that's giving more than it's taking? Perhaps the relationship leaves you feeling anxious, moody, and at the whim of your date's next inclination to text you? If so, you are not alone! Nobody likes the feeling of being anxious and on edge in a dating situation, but our j...

Have you ever been talking to someone you really like and, all of the sudden they disappear for days or weeks only to reappear with a flirty message or compliment, or even a cryptic nonsensical meme that leaves you utterly confused? Or, gone on a few dates with someone who seemed really intereste...

Many of my clients struggle with insecurity in dating and their relationships. Insecurity is relatively common in the early stages of dating, and any time there have been ruptures in trust in the later stages of a relationship. Feelings of security and trust characterize a healthy relationship. H...

So many clients come to me for therapy or coaching believing there is a problem with their relationship, only to discover that they actually struggle with relationship anxiety. What this means is that the issues they perceive in their relationship are not as problematic as the anxiety they feel i...